Relationship ...

How do you explain relationship???

In a family there are direct and indirect relationship. If we take human as a case subject, when and how it started? For all those who believed, Prophet Adam AS was the first human created, and later on it was Hawa created to be his wife. And therefore onward the humankind as we know today.

THANK YOU FOR YOU TIME

My sister send this story by E Mail recently, and think it is only appropriate that it is place here ...


THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME. ONCE YOU READ THIS
YOU WILL UNDERSTAND!

A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door. It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.
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Over the phone, his mother told him, "Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday." Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days. "Jack, did you hear me?" "Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago," Jack said. "Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it," Mom told him. "I loved that old house he lived in," Jack said. "You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life," she said "He's the one who taught me carpentry," he said. "I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important... Mom, I'll be there for the funeral," Jack said.
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As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away. The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time. Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture... .Jack stopped suddenly. "What's wrong, Jack?" his Mom asked. "The box is gone," he said "What box?" Mom asked. "There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was 'the thing I value most,'" Jack said. It was gone.
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Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it. "Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him," Jack said. "I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom." It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. "Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days," the note read. Early the next day Jack retrieved the package.
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The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. "Mr. Harold Belser" it read. Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package.
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There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside. "Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life." A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch. Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover. Inside he found these words ngraved: "Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser." "The thing he valued most was...my time"
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Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days. "Why?" Janet, his assistant asked. "I need some time to spend with my son," he said. "Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks for your time!" "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away,"
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Think about this. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.
1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.
2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.
3. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.
4. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.
5. You mean the world to someone.
6. If not for you, someone may not be living.
7. You are special and unique.
8. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you trust God to do what's best, and wait on His time, sooner or later, you will get it or something better.
9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still come from it.
10. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.
11. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.
12. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.
13. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know and you'll both be happy .
14. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.
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Send this letter to all the people you care about, if you do so, you will certainly brighten someone's day and might change their perspective on life...for the better.
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To everyone I sent this to " Thanks for your time".

Dalam ini Rumah ada Undang Undang

Undang Undang adalah satu perkara yang sangat penting. Sekiranya kita tidak ada undang undang, maka setiap orang akan membuat andaian sendiri mengikut pemikiran dan kehendak hatinya. Maka apabila itu terjadi, dengan sendirinya berlakulah pertembongan yang boleh membawa kacau bilau.

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Bukan hanya di dalam rumah, didalam sesebuah negeri/negara juga ada undang undang. Dunia dan alam semesta juga dah memang ujud undang undang. Yang menariknya, ada satu terma "undang undang rimba".

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Disini, undang undangnya "MUDAH". Contohnya, seekor singa yang lapar, akan memakan rusa atau binatang lain yang berada didalam lingkongannya, dengan syarat singa itu berjaya menangkap rusa tersebut. Kita mungkin akan berkata kesian rusa itu, tetapi sebaliknya jika difikirkan, kenapa tidak kesian singa itu, sekiranya ia gagal menangkap rusa atau binatang lain, dia mungkin akan mati kelaparan.

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Ada banyak lagi contoh, National Geographic atau Channel Discovery serta beberapa saluran diTV banyak memaparkan cerita sebegini. Ini dinamakan lumrah Alam.

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Jadi, apabila kita bercerita mengenai tajuk kita "Dalam ini Rumah ada Undang Undang", ingat tak kita kepada cerita "Tiga Abdul" arahan P Ramlee dengan Ahmad Nisfu sebagai salah seorang teraju utamanya.Undang2 nya kronik, tetapi itu lah undang2nya, yang berjaya membolot harta 2 orang menantunya, tetapi makan diri kerana kepandaian menantu yang ketiga. Kena tengok cerita itu kalau tak pernah tengok, salah satu filem komedi yang sentiasa seronok ditonton walaupun kitadah tahu setiap skripnya.

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Oleh yang demikian, bermula dari hari ini, kita akan menyediakan undang2 untuk isi rumah kita. Asalkan ia tidak melanggar Hukum ALLAH SWT dan Sunnah Rasulullah SAW, tidak bertentangan dengan undang undang negara tempat kita bermastautin, dan lebih lebih lagi tidak maksiat, kita perlu belajar untuk patuh.

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Sebagai contoh, (1) telah ditentukan bahawa masa untuk "berinternet" tamat pada pukul 12.00malam. Kenapakah tempoh berinternet di tetapkan sedemikian? Salah satu dari sebab utamanya, tanpa ketetapan tersebut, didapati mereka yang mengunakannya lupa diri, sampai tertidur internet masih "ON" lagi. Walaupun diterima kepentingan internet, malangnya kebanyakan masa digunakan untuk perkara yang tidak bermanafaat.

Kita akan menjelaskan beberapa lagi Undang2, dalam masa yang terdekat sementara kita mengeluarkan satu Undang2 lengkap bagi rujukan semua. Ada berberapa peraturan yang telah di ajarkan, seperti (2) menghormati tamu denga bersalam dan mencium tangan (bukan menyondol ke dahi atau pipi) kepada mereka yang lebih tua. Kita diajar sejak kecil oleh Baba akan perkara ini, tetapi nampaknya, ramai yang tidak lagi mengamalkannya. Semasa kecil, kita akan bersedia untuk bersalam dan mencium tangan Baba semasa dia balik dari kerja, dan setakat ini, kecenderongan melalukkan oleh anak2 ada, walaupun belum tertib lagi.

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bersambung.

Spegetti ...

Tuesday, lepas hantar Adam & Ayyub taekwondo, seperti biasa relax jalan jalan ke Jaya Jusco, Bandar Baru Klang. Lia decided that she's in to eat Spegetti, but she's gonna cook the sauce. she good, taking good lesson and coaching from her mum.

Last nite, had the just cooked spegetti balognaise and again this morning ... simply delicious.

Aidil Fitri 1430/2009

Hari ini sudah 12 Syawal 1430, masa berlalu tanpa dirasai. Puasa enam (6) pun belum mula lagi. Kalau tak ada aral, insyaallah, minggu depan kena mula, kalau tak ... rugi besar.

Tahun ni raya ok juga. Raya di Shah Alam dulu. Semampunya segala disiapkan sampai malam raya. Buka puasa malam raya (29 ramadhan) di No8, Aida dan Keluarga ada sama. Pada masa tu belum 'announcement' raya lagi. Manalah tau, ada orang nak puasa sehari lagi, nak genap 30 hari.

Tiba masa ... "Satelah dipersetujui oleh duli yang maha mulia raja raja dan di perkenankan oleh Seri Paduka Baginda Yang DiPertuan Agong, saya mengistiharkan bahawa Hari Raya Aidil Fitri telah ditetapkan pada (1 Syawal tahun ini) ... hari ahad 20hb September 2009.

Lega tak payah puasa lagi. Boring sunggoh kan, pasalnya ramai yang belum memahami nikmat puasa, asyik ingat nak raya aje.

Malam tu baru boleh ambil baju melayu yang ditempah ... last minit betul, harapnya tak berulang lagi tahun depan, itupun kalau buat barulah. Bukan ingat nak jumpa Ramadhan yang akan datang, asyik ingat raya aje... Siap ajak Baba ikut, satu round Bandaraya Shah Alam, ingat nak berhenti beli kuih raya lelong, punyelah ramai orang dekat Kompleks PKNS, SACC tak jadi. Akhirnya Khalifah dapat order 3 bungkus Teh Tarik kurang manis. Balik No8, Ustaz Fuad & isteri, Sham & Gye ada, dapatlah rasa teh tarik. Balik Jln sampan, esok nak raya ...

Takbir bergema dah Aidil Fitri. Siap siap sampai No8 pukul 7 juga lebih kurang. Siap bawa nasi minyak (Nie bangun kul 4 pagi masak). asyik sarapan, dah tak sempat Solat Sunat Aidil Fitri, nasib baik sunat. Tu lah asyik sibuk nak raya....

Selepas bermaafan harap dapat 0 0 lah, baru sarapan, lepas tu Pak Ngah and gang (Rommel 's & Kennedin's family). Dah makan kenal mengenal saudara dan anak saudara, kita raya rumah Pak Ngah. Lepas tu balikJalan Sampan ... pukul 1.15 baru gerak ke KT.

Merdeka ke 51

31hb Ogos 2008

Bunga Api sedang bergemerlapan di Dataran Merdeka, kali ni tengok TV bersama Lia dan Thira. Adam, Ayyub dan Lisha dah tidur.

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My cousin Dr Jefrey Abu Hassan celebrate his birthday 46th if I am not mistaken.

10 TIP JADI BAPA COOL

Terjumpa dengan rencana in diBerita Harian, Sabtu 30hb August 2008, dengan tajuk Bapa Alaf 21 tak ego. Dulu garang sekarang lembut? Satu topik yang menarik.

Baru saja lepaskan Lia dan Thira, nak pergi shopping, anak-anak zaman sekarang. Lisha pula boring tapi kakak tak nak bawa, kalau nak ikut kena warning dulu tak boleh ngamok, bila tanya dah mula tunjuk angin, itu baru 5 tahun. Dah kena sound, kena cepat pujuk, kalau tidak kang panjang cerita.

Tip ni tak tahulah sesuai ke ..

1. UTAMAKAN KEPERLUAN ANAK

Jika anda seorang perokok, mungkin sekarang masa yang sesuai untuk meninggalkan tabiat ini. Selain berhabis wang tanpa ada faedah kesihatan, asap rokok tidak baik untuk anak anda terutama yang masih bayi. Jadi tunggu apa lagi? Dalam membuat sebarang keputusan, utamakan kepentingan anak-anak terlebih dulu terutama dalam soal kewangan dan pendidikan.

2. LINDUNGI ANAK
Tugas utama bapa ialah pelindung. Lindungi anak anda dalam apa saja aspek hidup seperti mengelak kemalangan kecil di rumah, tempat duduk khas kanak-kanak dalam kereta mahupun sehelai polisi insuran nyawa.

3. LUANGKAN MASA BERSAMA ANAK
Jika pada hari bekerja anda sering pulang lewat, manafaatkan sepenuh cuti hujung minggu bersama anak-anak. Banyak aktiviti boleh dilakukan bagi menambah keceriaan dan keseronokan hidup sekeluarga.

4. BERMAIN DENGAN ANAK
Anak-anak anda mungkin mempunyai hobi yang sama. Apa kata luangkan hujung minggu untuk bermain futsal, bolasepak atau melukis di taman.

5. SESEKALI LAKUKAN TUGAS IBU
Tidak salah bagi bapa 'cool' melakukan tugas ibu seperti memasak dan mengemas rumah. Selain berkongsi tugas isteri, anda mampu mengeratkan hubungan denga anak-anak. Percayalah, jika anda menukar lampin, memberikan susu dan mendodoi di tengah malam, hubungan anda dengan si kecil bertambah erat hingga hari tua.

6. TUNJUK KASIH SAYANG ANDA
Usah malu mengusap rambut, mencium atau memeluk anak anda setiap kali pulang kerumah. Dengan cara ini, hubungan dengan anak bertambah rapat, malah mereka tidak malu meluahkan perasaan atau berkongsi masalah dengan anda terutama ketika meningkat remaja.

7. JADI RAKAN ANAK ANDA
Anda boleh menjadi teman rapat anak anda sendiri. kenal dirinya, dekati dan jalin hubungan istimewa. Namun, sifat dominan dan ketegasan seorang bapa perlu dipertahankan.

8. INGAT HARI PENTING ANAK
Ada bapa terlupa tarikh lahir anaknya sendiri. Tentukan anda mengingati tarikh lahir anak sebagai tanda kasih dan mengeratkan hubungan.

9. HORMATI ISTERI ATAU IBU ANAK-ANAK ANDA
Asyik menyenaraikan tip menjadi bapa 'cool' elemen penting yang perlu diber perhatian ialah isteri anda sendiri. Sesekali ambil alih tugas isteri anda, berikan waktu rehat mahupun terapi urut istimewa. Jika isteri anda gembira, sudah pasti anak-anak turut gembira!

10. JAGA KESIHATAN DIRI ANDA
Penting untuk bapa menjaga kesihatan diri. Bapa yang sihat adalah pemulaan bagi sebuah kehidupan keluarga yang sempurna!

Sebagai seorang bapa, ayah, abah, atau apa jua yang menjadi panggilan, yang utama adalah tanggungjawab yang tetap sama. Walaubagaimana pun, keupayaan serta usaha setiap individu itu berbeza. Yang penting kasih sayang.