Sunday, August 31, 2008

Merdeka ke 51

31hb Ogos 2008

Bunga Api sedang bergemerlapan di Dataran Merdeka, kali ni tengok TV bersama Lia dan Thira. Adam, Ayyub dan Lisha dah tidur.

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My cousin Dr Jefrey Abu Hassan celebrate his birthday 46th if I am not mistaken.

Saturday, August 30, 2008

10 TIP JADI BAPA COOL

Terjumpa dengan rencana in diBerita Harian, Sabtu 30hb August 2008, dengan tajuk Bapa Alaf 21 tak ego. Dulu garang sekarang lembut? Satu topik yang menarik.

Baru saja lepaskan Lia dan Thira, nak pergi shopping, anak-anak zaman sekarang. Lisha pula boring tapi kakak tak nak bawa, kalau nak ikut kena warning dulu tak boleh ngamok, bila tanya dah mula tunjuk angin, itu baru 5 tahun. Dah kena sound, kena cepat pujuk, kalau tidak kang panjang cerita.

Tip ni tak tahulah sesuai ke ..

1. UTAMAKAN KEPERLUAN ANAK
Jika anda seorang perokok, mungkin sekarang masa yang sesuai untuk meninggalkan tabiat ini. Selain berhabis wang tanpa ada faedah kesihatan, asap rokok tidak baik untuk anak anda terutama yang masih bayi. Jadi tunggu apa lagi? Dalam membuat sebarang keputusan, utamakan kepentingan anak-anak terlebih dulu terutama dalam soal kewangan dan pendidikan.

2. LINDUNGI ANAK
Tugas utama bapa ialah pelindung. Lindungi anak anda dalam apa saja aspek hidup seperti mengelak kemalangan kecil di rumah, tempat duduk khas kanak-kanak dalam kereta mahupun sehelai polisi insuran nyawa.

3. LUANGKAN MASA BERSAMA ANAK
Jika pada hari bekerja anda sering pulang lewat, manafaatkan sepenuh cuti hujung minggu bersama anak-anak. Banyak aktiviti boleh dilakukan bagi menambah keceriaan dan keseronokan hidup sekeluarga.

4. BERMAIN DENGAN ANAK
Anak-anak anda mungkin mempunyai hobi yang sama. Apa kata luangkan hujung minggu untuk bermain futsal, bolasepak atau melukis di taman.

5. SESEKALI LAKUKAN TUGAS IBU
Tidak salah bagi bapa 'cool' melakukan tugas ibu seperti memasak dan mengemas rumah. Selain berkongsi tugas isteri, anda mampu mengeratkan hubungan denga anak-anak. Percayalah, jika anda menukar lampin, memberikan susu dan mendodoi di tengah malam, hubungan anda dengan si kecil bertambah erat hingga hari tua.

6. TUNJUK KASIH SAYANG ANDA
Usah malu mengusap rambut, mencium atau memeluk anak anda setiap kali pulang kerumah. Dengan cara ini, hubungan dengan anak bertambah rapat, malah mereka tidak malu meluahkan perasaan atau berkongsi masalah dengan anda terutama ketika meningkat remaja.

7. JADI RAKAN ANAK ANDA
Anda boleh menjadi teman rapat anak anda sendiri. kenal dirinya, dekati dan jalin hubungan istimewa. Namun, sifat dominan dan ketegasan seorang bapa perlu dipertahankan.

8. INGAT HARI PENTING ANAK
Ada bapa terlupa tarikh lahir anaknya sendiri. Tentukan anda mengingati tarikh lahir anak sebagai tanda kasih dan mengeratkan hubungan.

9. HORMATI ISTERI ATAU IBU ANAK-ANAK ANDA
Asyik menyenaraikan tip menjadi bapa 'cool' elemen penting yang perlu diber perhatian ialah isteri anda sendiri. Sesekali ambil alih tugas isteri anda, berikan waktu rehat mahupun terapi urut istimewa. Jika isteri anda gembira, sudah pasti anak-anak turut gembira!

10. JAGA KESIHATAN DIRI ANDA
Penting untuk bapa menjaga kesihatan diri. Bapa yang sihat adalah pemulaan bagi sebuah kehidupan keluarga yang sempurna!

Sebagai seorang bapa, ayah, abah, atau apa jua yang menjadi panggilan, yang utama adalah tanggungjawab yang tetap sama. Walaubagaimana pun, keupayaan serta usaha setiap individu itu berbeza. Yang penting kasih sayang.

Friday, August 29, 2008

Happenings @1416,9teen31

Nie is actually away in Taman Negara since Wednesday 27th August, Insyallah, she should be back on Sunday, 31st being Merdeka Day. The boys took the opportunity to sleep in our room, however still unable to convince Lisha, she came in early this morning.

Lia drove to UiTMKL today, arrived ok and arrived home okay. Later on she pick up Thira for the weekend. Monday is a holiday, a replacement for Merdeka Day that fall on Sunday.

Insyallah we shall start fasting on 1st Ramadhan, and that probably be on Monday, 1st September 2008

Satu round

Nak satu round, that was Baba's request this morning as I was about to go to work after having breakfast with him, mum & pa. We had toseh, masalode & vade. Mum made me Kopi O.

It was a simple request but it was such a pleasure to take him around, as he does not go around much considering his health condition. We even drop by Pak Ngah house and a short chat as Baba is not properly dressed (pakai kain chokin aje)

Sometime looking back, he has given us all me and my siblings so much and most of us seems to be busy for some short time for him, mum and fa.

Love you all, and will try to make it more often.

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Forgot that today was my turn to send food.

A1- 48th Today

Happy Birthday Bro,

48 years ago today, a baby boy was born to the couple Mohd Hussain and Bastiah. That's my brother, he is 1 year older than me. Married with 3 children (Arif, Tiqa & Nana). Somehow we are not that close, and yet that is how life is.

He is an imej consultant, and is very good at what he does.

Anyway, once again, happy birthday bro, may Allah SWT blessed you with his HIDAYAH always. Although I never really mention this to face on, love you always.

From all of us @1416,9teen31,shahalam.

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Being Hospitable

Abang Mi and family were visiting over the weekend because Izzati, his elders daughter Convocation at UNITEN.The whole family came and it was good for the cousins to play with. Adam, Ayyub and Lisha were very happy entertaining the twins, while Lia and Thira with the other elder girls.
Between our two family there are al together 11 children ours 5 and Abang Mi 6. Of the eleven, unfortunately, Ahmad Alif Aizat is out of the group being a boy and out of age.He seems to be lost and out of place and resort to HP games and/or SMS, I pity that boy but is of no help either.
Yesterday they, they send Ain to KLIA enroute to Sarawak before going back to KT.

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Been Busy Lately

Since the last entry, has been busy for reason that cannot be justify. Well what has happen all this while? Some of the issues such as what to write or rather type. The availability of internet access and what ever ... What can I remember ...


Nizam & Su, got a baby boy on the 31st July 2008, and until so recently baby no-name is Hafiy Wajdi, hopefully I got the spelling right.


What else ..... maybe later